I mentioned in an earlier post, my ex husband had three break downs. He had what I believe is called brief reactive psychosis. He experienced psychosis his mind had a break from reality. He suffered from delusions and hallucinations during this state. I believe the break downs were from living in the closet for so long. Brief reactive psychosis can occur after a drug, or alcohol binge usual lasting less than thirty days. It was during one of his breaks with reality that he kept repeating this over and over while laughing “Look At All Those Chicken Bones”. “Chicken” is a gay slang term for a young gay male, and “Bone” is a slang term for penis. In his state of delusion, I believe he was having hallucinations of many young gay penises.
It was in January, very cold outside when a man called my house seemingly upset, he asked me to give my husband a message. He said tell him “He was supposed to meet me for a Cookout”. I did give my husband the message, he did not say a word. He turned his back to me, and walked out the back door. The word cookout kept playing over and over in my mind, until I googled the word. Cookout is a slang term for oral sex. The term cookout is also used by straight people it’s not just a gay term.
If you suspect your husband is gay, and you come across some strange text, or receive a suspicious phone call you need to know they speak in code. I have listed a few gay slang terms. There are hundreds of gay slang terms on-line.
Angel Food-homosexual male pilot currently serving in the Air Force.
Basket Shopping-when cruising to check someone out, to view their private parts through their cloths.
Beard-the wife of a closeted gay man.
Bear-in the gay culture a large hairy man who represents rugged masculinity.
Bug Chasers-a gay male who is seeking to have sexual relations with a HIV infected person. He wants to contract the HIV virus intentionally. The HIV infected male willing to have sex for the purpose of giving the virus is called the Gift Giver.
Bulls-super massive body builder.
Catcher Or Bottom-man who receives anal sex.
Chicken-a younger homosexual male looking for an older gay male.
Chicken Hawk-an older gay male looking for young gay men.
Cookout-Oral sex, as in let me put my meat on your grill.
Cottaging-slang for hooking up in public restrooms.
Cubs-a younger looking husky male, always hairy.
Ring Snatcher-during sex the person who prefers the bottom role.
Eyeball Queen-person who gets sexual pleasure from watching others perform sexually.
Fish And Chips-wife and kids of a gay male lover.
Full House-term used for having more than one sexually transmitted disease at once.
Girl Scout-military man on leave currently seeking sex.
Gym Rat-a gay male who is addicted to working out at the gym.
Ice Cream-someone so sweet that you have a desire to lick them.
Kiki-a party including good music, and good friends.
Otter-thin hairy gay men, smaller than bears.
Pitcher Or Top-man who gives anal sex.
Pup-a young naive gay male, with not much experience, considered cute by the gay community.
Twink-a gay slang term used to refer to a young (18 to early 20s) homosexual man with certain outward characteristics, such as an effeminate manner, a thin build, no body or facial hair, which all give to a youthful look.
Twunks-similar to Twinks, a homosexual term used to describe a young man (usually between 18-25) that has the face of a twink, with the physique of a hunk. Usually a twunk’s body is not as “ripped” as a “hunk”, but if they went to the gym, the twunk could have the body of a hunk.
Wolves-gay male, semi hairy, muscular, lean, attractive, and sexually aggressive.
Vanilla-conventional sex, nothing that involves fetish activities, BDSM, or kink.
Zipper Queen-a sex party or orgy that takes place in public, like a bathhouse or a bar.