What Happens When you are Gaslighted by a Narcissist? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


What happens when you are gaslighted by a narcissist? You begin losing your sense of self becoming unrecognizable to yourself. You are confused and feel like you are in a fog. You become depressed and begin to question yourself about everything. You are afraid, afraid to leave your house. Afraid to go to the store.… Continue reading What Happens When you are Gaslighted by a Narcissist? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora

How Do You Interpret a narcissist behavior? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


How do you interpret a narcissist behavior? A2A Thank you for the question Blake. Not all narcissist were abused in early childhood. Some may have been catered to or overindulged. Still these school of thoughts may not be true. As these are theoretical points of view. It may be temperament and a predisposition. Now there… Continue reading How Do You Interpret a narcissist behavior? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora

What causes the largest wounding to a narcissist?Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


Leaving the narcissist would cause the greatest narcissistic injury. The narcissist will try everything in his or her power to get you back under their control and have you back in the relationship. Going no contact would cause them further injury. Remember the narcissist is not going to change he only wants you back under… Continue reading What causes the largest wounding to a narcissist?Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora

Do Narcissist get Obsessed With People? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


NARCISSIST ARE NOT OBSESSED WITH YOU, THEY ARE OBSESSED WITH CONTROLLING YOU! Narcissists are never and I repeat never obsessed with people. People who think narcissist are obsessed with them do not understand narcissism. While it may seem like the narcissist is obsessed with you what you are seeing is: The narcissist is high off… Continue reading Do Narcissist get Obsessed With People? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora

Would someone whose better than I explain the narcissistic discard? How dangerous they are, as we saw with Gabby petito, anyone whose been in those relationships seen that traumatized look in her eyes on the police bod cam..Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


The narcissist devalue their partners throughout the relationship. They are hot/cold, mean then nice. They can love you one minute then hate you the next. They have a Dr. Jekyll Mr. Hyde personality. The relationship can last a few months or for years. Everything you do is wrong. They are never pleased with you. You… Continue reading Would someone whose better than I explain the narcissistic discard? How dangerous they are, as we saw with Gabby petito, anyone whose been in those relationships seen that traumatized look in her eyes on the police bod cam..Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora

Do narcissists also feel the trauma bond they’ve created within a relationship? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


Did you abuse the narcissist? Did you degrade him and put him through emotional abuse? Did you tell him you Love him then turn around and tell him you Hate him? Did you beat him and then go wrap your arms around him? Did you introduce him to hot and cold treatment? Did you starve… Continue reading Do narcissists also feel the trauma bond they’ve created within a relationship? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora

Why do narcissists seem so happy right after they discard someone?Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


They are high off of all that fuel they got by devaluing you at discard. This really built them up and you could see it. As they tore you down they were all puffed up. And they have a new source of supply. They feel like a pig in shit. Strutting around like they are… Continue reading Why do narcissists seem so happy right after they discard someone?Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora

What are some things narcissists do that hurt people? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


Every word you say will be held against you. They assign some evil or negative connotation to everything you say. It gets to where you are afraid to speak. You struggle to make sense of it all. And you keep telling them no you did not mean it this way. It was an innocent statement.… Continue reading What are some things narcissists do that hurt people? Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora

What kind of transactions make a narcissist stay with a supply source long term?Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


You are there to serve the needs of the narcissist. You will not have any needs of your own. And you will give up all autonomy. When the narcissist is angry with someone you must be angry with that person as well. If not the narcissist will turn all of his anger on you. He… Continue reading What kind of transactions make a narcissist stay with a supply source long term?Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora

Are narcissists generally affectionate people, or is it all an act?Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora


I am sorry to disappoint you, those with narcissistic personality disorder are not affectionate people. Now they can show affection if they want something from you. And if it is going to benefit them. They are looking for a payoff. It is never about you and always about them. You cannot take it personally. Everything… Continue reading Are narcissists generally affectionate people, or is it all an act?Answered by Debra Sutton on Quora