Codependency vs. Narcissism by Debra Sutton


I have read some blogs referring to codependency as narcissism. Referring to codependency as being on a spectrum with narcissism. The codependent is described as a flying monkey under the narcissist spell. Defending the narcissist bad behavior. This sounds to me like Stockholm syndrome. Many codependents form trauma bonds with their narcissistic abusers. Does this… Continue reading Codependency vs. Narcissism by Debra Sutton

New Book by Debra Sutton Signs Of A Gay Husband Vol. 2 On The Other Side Of Fear


My my new book Signs Of A Gay Husband Vol. 2 On The Other Side Of Fear is now available on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=Signs+of+a+gay+husband+vol.+2+on+the+other+side+of+fear

Trauma-Bonding brainwashing techniques include good-bad treatment by Flying Monkeys Denied


http://flyingmonkeysdenied.com/2015/12/20/trauma-bonding-brainwashing-techniques-include-good-bad-treatment/ Trauma-Bonding brainwashing techniques include good-bad treatment Narcissists and Anti-Social predators are notorious for manufacturing chaos to worm their way closer to targeted abuse victims. They will set the stage for a target to suffer extreme emotional distress, then will show up mysteriously to “save the day”. It’s a sneaky brainwashing trick to manufacture chaos,… Continue reading Trauma-Bonding brainwashing techniques include good-bad treatment by Flying Monkeys Denied

Open Your Eyes by Debra Sutton


One cannot constantly put their own needs and feelings aside to make another person happy. And a person who constantly expects you to do this is not expressing real love. Someone who truly loves you will care about your happiness, you will not be asked to sacrifice yourself over and over again. Being that yes… Continue reading Open Your Eyes by Debra Sutton

On the Other Side of Fear by Debra Sutton


On the Other Side of Fear Lies Freedom.  I’m Looking forward to a great new year. It was five years ago in January, I got on a plane leaving my gay ex and all of my belongings behind. I had just one suitcase of clothes. I left for my home state of Texas not knowing… Continue reading On the Other Side of Fear by Debra Sutton