From the Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @http://www.amazon.com/Charm-Harm-Everything-Narcissist-Narcissistic/dp/1523820179/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462614209&sr=1-1&keywords=from+charm+to+harm   BUT you still ask yourself HOW can someone you showed so much love turn around and abuse that love. You also ask yourself WHY would a person con you into believing they loved you do such a… Continue reading You have to actualize that EVERYTHING is a LIE with a NARCISSIST. NOT almost everything, but EVERYTHING. From “I love you, to I hate you, you are mentally ill, your friends, hate you, my family hates you, the world hates you, you are worthless, nobody will ever love you, etc. !” Don’t forget all the other day to day lies, the lies about the affairs, the lies about the stupid stuff, the lies about accountability, the lies about other lies, etc., etc., etc., ETC.! 

Go inward and focus on yourself. Don’t try to analyze other people. Don’t hold people accountable. You cannot change other people, you can only change you. Don’t pass judgement. Don’t be critical of others, or yourself. Keep moving forward. – Debra Sutton 

https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-is-narcissistic-supply/?utm_source=New+Life&utm_campaign=46f2ce877c-Day+2+Narc+Motivation+-+16+days+to+your+new+life&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_005709a593-46f2ce877c-408805545 We hear these words “narcissistic supply” a lot, and we may have even realised that narcissists need it and orient their lives around it. But what does it really mean? The truth is quite chilling and it’s essential to understand. Narcissistic supply is a drug – it provides an emotional life force for the… Continue reading What is Narcissistic Supply Written By   Melanie Tonia Evans20 Jun 2014

@http://www.amazon.com/Charm-Harm-Everything-Narcissist-Narcissistic/dp/1523820179/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462614209&sr=1-1&keywords=from+charm+to+harm When we are attempting to relate to a Narcissist our interactions with them are basically manipulated into reactions that a Narcissist provokes by basically charming or love bombing our emotions positively or the opposite negative reactions of putting us on the defensive where we are basically having to always explain ourselves and made to… Continue reading From the Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! 

https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-you-can-work-with-pain-to-avoid-suffering/ All of us know about suffering and pain. There is so much of it in narcissistic relationships. In fact it is synonymous with narcissistic abuse, and the aftershock of abuse. I would really like you, though, to understand what pain and suffering really is. Pain is inevitable; it is a part of life. Emotional… Continue reading How You Can Work With Pain To Avoid Suffering | Narcissism Recovery and Relationships Blog

I want to let my readers know. I have come to a place of peace and forgiveness. I was able to talk to my ex-husband and work through our differences. He did apologize for the abuse he put me through. My issue with him was not about gay. My pain came from the way he… Continue reading Peace, Love, and Forgiveness by Debra Sutton 

https://narcsite.com/2017/08/13/the-saviour-empath/comment-page-1/ There are four schools of empath (Co-Dependent, Standard, Super and Contagion). There are many cadres of empath which layer on to those schools. These cadres include the Carrier, the Magnet and the Geyser, about which I have written previously. A further cadre is that of the Saviour Empath. The Saviour Empath’s mission is to… Continue reading The Saviour Empath | Knowing the Narcissist by H.G. Tudor